Tell me this , doesn't this happen all the time ? When WE , think , or lose our MINDS just wishing and hoping for our " Prince "... charming or not , to come charging into our lives and hearts .
A friend of mine recently told me , that , the Giving of Ourselves , to another person is the Greatest Sacrifice one can do .! It made me think , and pause , Yes, it is true ! We do take and give a part of our life to another person , undoubtedly .We do let the other person , sort of or as a whole gain control of our life . Hmmmmm. , you say , "did I do that " ? Did I really give up , shared and lost a part of my life , Or was my friend just so hurt from a past love affair , and was bitter about it ?
A lot of people , who are in a relationship often forget , how their personal love affair started . And more often than not , they frown at other peoples pain in searching for a loved one . It's not easy , to find a "HERO" , you know ! Someone who will stand by you and take your breath away , each time you think about him or her . Most of them forget , how it is to get flustered and have great anticipation of being able to be with, and to hold hands , even without uttering a sound , is a fabulous mystery of life .
Well , then it's about time to look t your love life , and look at the state where you are now . Can you honestly say , that you are happy , without batting an eyelash ? Did you have to pause to think for a second , if you truly are ? My point is not to embarrass you , but to to access , how you have just settled for being in the state of no excitement , and that everyday is an ordinary routine day for both of you . This is what I call , giving up a part of your life , your identity and lost it somewhere , along the way to oblivion . And the "hero" has turned into a villain .
So please , be kind and don't frown at the searching hearts , who are saying "SOMEDAY , MY PRINCE CHARMING WILL COME , MINE JUST TOOK A WRONG TURN , got Lost and WAS JUST TOO STUBBORN to ASK for DIRECTIONS."........ Humorous as it sounds , it is truly quite frustrating to be "wrong AGAIN "......and Waiting !
But on the lighter mood of this Shout Out , it is really sounds Hilarious . We should , make light banter of a sticky dream . Many dreamers and hopefuls are just plain romantics , but take it in stride . Better to have a laugh out loud , than brood over the long wait . I admire this kind of attitude . It's a never give up , heads up personality, don't you agree ? I can say , they are taking the worst scenario , and took a twist of HUMOR to become unforgettably bearable and funny .
Come to think of it , it is truly hard to find the right "Prince " when the women out number the men . The men take their time ,and shop around , and obviously do make a lot of turns with so many to chose from . And please do not make a mistake in thinking that the women of today too , do not do the same in spite of the competition , they are making their own categories and screened choices . Good for them , there is no rush to be tied down to one person . The world is their playing field , and it's quite vast in nature... So enjoy life and the many loves you can try , before settling down , with your Prince that finally took the Right Direction . It's the dawn of the new age , ENJOY YOUR LIFE WISELY .
In the tireless quest for insights , only silence can make things alright...... when we trade in new dreams for old ......and we look at far horizons and see that there are , no beginnings without endings . We are always changing and taking chances ......never knowing where they're leading . We take steps , moving forward to take the challenge and try to understand that we must open our eyes , that truth is but a notion , and that mother nature takes your hand , that we must break the silence , and rearrange our lives . Yes, moving forward , as the speed of light does , to find the balance .
We might be worn down and tired of searching, you'll find the answer , it won't be long . We will find the answer even once , in a million days , we feel the warmth and the light in our face and be content. Don't you know that , we must love our own person first to survive ? We must not be just a ,number , to be punched in or out , again and again....! We must have a "Name" .....! And not play the game of life ,as others would dictate for us to follow...........
We can face the sun and smile , and perhaps reach out and touch someones " heart" with just a simple gesture as a , smile ........ a soft tender touch .......... a kind look ........ blowing kisses ........ even a call........ gestures so simple and innocent that we take them for granted and forget to be human .
Do you feel that you jailed yourself and it seems that your house seems like a jail.....the air so stale and thick with whispers.....and you think you're going mad.......it only takes a look into yourself , to see the monster you've become....
I have chosen a path that is restless and lonely . In a relentless world , where there is no turning back .
He elegido un camino que es agitado y solo. En un mundo implacable, donde allí no es se vuelve atrás.
The strong winds blow and the red earth shake and crumble with each wavering step into my lifetime. Making every fiber of my being weak and defeated . My restless spirit longing desperately to be content and sure of myself ,if what I am heading to is the correct path into attaining all my dreams .
I have built my house of stone , so fortified , that neither light nor love can penetrate . Nothing but an empty shell , so bright on the outside , but hollow inside. Showing the world , that I'm happy yet so empty without love. Searching for someone to love me back, who will hold me close and true, and can make me stay . Yet so cautious and doubtful of my own self .
But someday , I will find the light out of the darkness . I will finally see my dreams evolve and come true. I will, I tell myself , that somewhere out in the vailed mist is someone and I'll find my life back . I have to stand strong and proud that at last my dream is for real . I will hold the hand of the Angel of Kindness , and be led out of my own prison into the arms of compassion, trust and love .
I must follow my heart , to lead me out of the darkness . I must live my dream , and go out and find it . Being alone for so long was my own choice , and now I must chose another path into a different world , a happier place of mind and heart . I believe , in life ,love and two hearts and two minds that can merge to create a new beginning . A special person to share my life with love and cherish in this lifetime . I do believe I can , when fate and the Angel takes hold of my hand and leads the way .
Are you all shocked that I could post this ? But , it's just to good to pass by . Now , now , haven't you been in this situation , or should I say STATE of MIND , at least a couple of times in your life , and maybe more ?
Ahh ! Now you recall , searching deeply into your subconscious..... most of us , if not all of us , has have thoughts of destruction ! What we cannot do ACTUALLY , our Mind does it for us ! We are given , a period of moments to vent out our anger , to plan and scheme and annihilate...!!
Oh , The POWER of the Brain....no one really gets harmed , Right ! (Just, do not put the plan into reality .)
Being ” Human ” , we are often pushed to feel and think this way , and I won't blame you . When one gets this ” murderous ” inclinations , it is often justified . We were Provoked... Some people are innately Pushers , while others are Submissive...and others are just plainly born ” Pranksters “... sent to this earth to make our lives miserable....
So Chant the ,” Lord grant me to Accept the things I cannot Change “is ............(Strong humility) ” the Courage to change the things I can ” is .....................................( Be Positive ) ” And the Wisdom........................... ( Depends on the request) , Be Serene !
Just let your THOUGHTS do the deed.....and All will be Better . Remember , If everyone's thoughts were to be Collected all at once........There would be a LOT of dead bodies laying on the streets . Then I ask you , ” Who would be left standing in this world ? “
Did you ever doubt it ? Just take the time to sit still and take a look around . Haven't you noticed that life moves along , even without you moving from your seat , or even from your bed ? In fact, yesterday is not the same as today ...Or tomorrow be the same as today...! I made you think , didn't I ?
So why should you procrastinate , and leave things undone today ? When you need to show a , SmiLe .Why stop yourself ? Tomorrow , the person that needs it might not be around , right ! When your heart skips a beat , and you feel a " bit" of compassion , just give out your hand to HeLp . Don't think too much on your every move . Life is not a script....nor are we actors , with a role to play ....!
Why condition yourself to be , GrumPy , or SaD....Do you want your face to be frozen in time , looking UgLy ?
Do you want your face lines be so defined , that any amount of facial scrub nor creams , ( botox ) is useless ?
Your beautiful eyes are meant to shine , and look at the world in every new revolution .
But you say , Life is not always happy . True , but life is not always sad too ...Then I ask you , "Do the flowers go on strike , and will not bloom just because we cut them from their mother stems ? " I should say not , they bloom and RANDOMLY grow and turn millions of colors each day , giving joy to all . So, I ask you , Why can't we be the same ? Why can't we shine through all the adversities of daily stress and just laugh it off, show our teeth with a smile... it more RELAXING...believe me !
Now , talking about , LOVE , we can love , without being selfish , without control ......That's the way love starts out anyway ....Right ! We feel different , feeling a million butterflies in our gut , dreamy eyed.....in love. Most of all, no cares in the world ...CAREFREE.....full of hope , faith and trust.....Stay that way !
We are meant to be , to taste....... bitter with the sweet , at RANDOM times in our lifetime ...!